What Guides Our Heart
“And He will return the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers.” (Malachi 3:24)
V’Heishiv Lev means
“And He will return the heart.”
This verse of the Tanach inspires our mission: to help parents and adult children find their way back to one another.
We are a coaching initiative dedicated to bridging the painful divide between generations. In a caring and nonjudgmental space, we guide both parents and adult children to gain perspective, build emotional strength, and practice practical tools that make healing and growth possible.
Our Heart Mission
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V'Heishiv Lev Coaching empowers parents and their adult children navigating strained or distant relationships to heal, build confidence, share practical tools, and deepen understanding and perspective.
We believe that when both generations are given the same language of communication, the same skills for validation, and the same space for growth, true change can begin. Our coaching creates a bridge that allows parents and adult children to move from mistrust and silence toward trust, empathy, and possibility.
Through compassionate guidance, we help families co-create relationships that are healthier, more respectful, and that honor the mitzvah of Kibbud Av Va’em.
Meet Our Team
Tuvia Blau
Co-Founder and Coach
With over 7 years of experience in parental alienation, estrangement, and empowerment coaching, Tuvia combines professional expertise with deep personal understanding.
Drawing on his background in communication, leadership, and mindfulness - along with his own journey of growth and healing - he has developed practical tools that help parents and adult children find their voice, build confidence, communicate more effectively, and rebuild trust.
His coaching blends compassion, clarity, and a Torah-centered perspective to guide families toward healthier, more respectful relationships and the possibility of meaningful connection.
Hindy Herman
Co-Founder and Coach
With over 4 years of experience in family estrangement and relationship coaching, Hindy leads with compassion, empathy, and deep personal insight.
Grounded in her own life experiences and training, she brings a unique ability to help clients feel truly seen and supported. Hindy guides both parents and adult children to build emotional resilience, clarify their needs, and approach challenges with strength and perspective.
Her coaching empowers individuals to set boundaries, build confidence in their voice, and take meaningful steps toward healing - with warmth and understanding.
Why Choose Us
Neutral & Nonjudgmental Space
We honor the perspectives of both parents and adult children without blame or shame. Every story is unique, and we create a safe environment where both generations feel respected and heard.
Practical Tools & Techniques
We teach validation techniques, effective communication skills, boundary-setting, and emotional resilience strategies that both sides can practice and use in real-life conversations. Our process is tool-driven, giving families practical steps they can apply right away.
Rooted in Torah Values
Torah values guide everything we do. Healing family relationships is both emotional and spiritual work, grounded in the mitzvah of Kibbud Av Va’em and carried out under rabbinic guidance.
Expert Coaches
Our coaches bring years of experience in family estrangement and relationship dynamics, combined with a Torah perspective that understands the values, sensitivities, and challenges of our community.
For Parents
The pain of being separated from a child, and subsequently from grandchildren, can feel overwhelming. Parents may long for reconnection, yet feel uncertain how to reach out without causing more hurt or distance.
At V’Heishiv Lev, we support you with:
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Perspective & Clarity – helping you understand your child’s experience without blame or judgment.
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Emotional Resilience – building strength and patience to carry you through difficult moments.
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Practical Tools – communication skills and validation techniques that make your child feel truly heard.
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Confidence to Reach Out – guiding you to approach sensitive topics with compassion and care.
We meet you where you are, helping you take steady steps toward rebuilding trust and creating the possibility of a renewed, respectful relationship.
For Adult Children
Protecting your emotional well-being, maintaining healthy boundaries, and carrying the weight of past pain can feel exhausting and isolating. Many adult children long to be heard without judgment, and to feel understood without pressure to reconcile before they are ready.
At V’Heishiv Lev, we support you with:
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A Safe Environment – a neutral, compassionate space where your voice is respected.
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Clarity & Perspective – helping you identify your needs and boundaries with confidence.
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Practical Tools – learning the same communication and validation techniques as your parents, so you both share the same language.
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Emotional Support – strengthening resilience so future conversations can be approached calmly and with confidence.
We honor your pace and your boundaries, ensuring that any step toward healing or dialogue happens when it feels right for you.
Services
We Offer
1 on 1 Coaching
Private coaching sessions give parents and adult children a safe, supportive space to gain clarity, build confidence, and learn practical tools for communication and healing at their own pace.
Workshops
Monthly Zoom workshops create community and provide insight, offering guidance, shared tools, and encouragement for those navigating family disconnection.
Courses
For parents ready to take the first step, Communicate and Reconnect is a guided course that teaches validation, open-ended questioning, and mindset shifts.
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